Tips

Be curious, not judgemental
Approach the other culture with genuine openness instead of immediately comparing or judging.

Understanding different dating rules
In some cultures, dating is casual, in others it is directly orientated towards a relationship or marriage.

Clarifying communication
Some cultures are more direct, others more indirect. Ask if you don’t understand something instead of interpreting it.

Respect family structures
Family often has a very different influence depending on the origin.

Use language consciously
Misunderstandings arise quickly, so simple and clear language helps.

Reflect on your own values
What is really important to you? Where are you flexible, where not?

Have patience
Cultural understanding does not develop overnight. So be patient with yourself and your counterpart.

Talk about expectations
Clarify topics such as role models, future or children at an early stage.

Use humour with caution
What is funny to you may be received completely differently culturally.

Develop a common “third culture”
Find your own way instead of just adapting a culture.